7 entry level vibrators if you are new to the sex toy game

This rabbit vibrator has an adjustable external arm that moves with you for clitoral stimulation while the curved shaft of the internal arm stimulates the G-spot. Both arms can be controlled independently so you can enjoy different speeds and vibration modes. There is also an app so you can hook up multiple toys and your partner can operate no matter how far away they are. Not all wand vibrators are created equal, according to Stephanie Hack, MD, founder of women’s health platform, Lady Parts Doctor, who has a list of criteria your sex toys should meet before you shell out your hard-earned cash.

That may not be the case for you, however, especially if you anticipate using SnailVibe for deep penetration. There are two sets of buttons — a plus sign (+) to turn the toy on or off, and an “S”-like squiggly line to change the settings — so you can control the motors independently. The shape and size of the Strawberry, while mimicking an actual strawberry, made the toy difficult to use—the actual well for the suction sits within the leafy top of the toy, and the suction mechanism was deep down in the well.

A physical remote is like a TV remote, where you can change settings by pressing buttons. A smartphone app allows you to adjust levels and patterns on your phone screen. This flexible and ergonomically designed rabbit dildo syncs with other We-Vibe products, making it a strong choice if you’re in a couple. With a unique suction feature for the clit, Melt’s female customers rave about the sensations it offers. Going for 2 hours on a single charge, the Melt can also go into sleep mode, staying on standby for up to 4 hours. With the ability to both vibrate and rotate, the Lelo IDA is ideal if you’re a heterosexual couple.

The sex toy scene has truly gone off in recent years via thrilling tech advancements (hello, app-controlled toys bridging the long-distance gap) and game-changing categories designed to elevate your solo or shared pleasure. Suction vibrators are a standout innovation that’s made major waves. Also known as clit sucking toys or clit suction vibrators, this category focuses on clitoral pleasure via air pressure and vibrating suction—a departure from traditional buzzy sex toys for beginners. “Dual-stimulation vibrators can be easy to use, and the combined internal and external stimulation can be great for beginners who don’t want to have to buy two different toys,” says Alesandra Madison, a BDSM educator. Many of them offer different types of stimulation from different parts of the toy.

With a combo of suction and penetration, it delivers on all the different sensations a beginner could be looking for but you can customize what you want to feel (and when) to avoid feeling overwhelmed. When it comes to cleaning, Dr. Tara advises washing your vibrator with light, soapy water, while ensuring it doesn’t seep into the battery or charging area. We’d recommend getting the sexy times started by browsing this list with your partner. Ask them what types of toys they find intriguing, and tell them which ones you like as well.

Its curved shaft is designed to fit inside the vagina, and it has a slender external arm that makes for easy removal. “It can be controlled from anywhere in the world, the curved head nestles comfortably against the sensitive tissues of the G-spot, and the vibrations range from a rumble to a pulsing earthquake,” Francis says. Like other remote-control offerings, the Lush 3 can also sync up with your music, creating unlimited vibration patterns for an ultra-customizable experience. Most wand vibrators have ball-shaped heads, long handles, and intense motors.

Of course, we mean that in the emotional/spiritual/mental way, but we also mean that if you don’t have a vibrator you love at the moment, it’s time to get one. That said, it’s wise to think about how you want to use your new toy. If you plan on using your vibrator during partnered sex, you may want to opt for one that’s slimmer and less intrusive. If you’re using the toy solo, you might not care if it has a cord or has a larger, clunkier design. This depends on a range of different factors, including material viberators, frequency of use and whether you’ve been cleaning it regularly. This was made even more enjoyable by the buttons, which (unlike on many bullet vibrators) are smooth to press and accessible, making this a good pick for first-time buyers.

And with the Lovense app, you can control each part of the vibrator independently , meaning you can customize your experience to perfection. The Lovense Lush 3 is one of the few remote controlled vibrators that can also be used as a long distance sex toy, using a combination of Bluetooth and Wi-Fi to give your partner control from afar. Good oral sex is often the fastest and most reliable way to reach the big O. Other times, a little oral exploration gets you primed for the main event. But there are times when you may want to get some wet and wild action when you’re flying solo.

Babeland and Good Vibes are SheKnows sponsors, however, all products in this article were independently selected by our editors. The short answer is yep, using a vibrator should not compromise an IUD should you choose to get one. You can banish fears of enjoying a session with your favorite external vibe only to see your IUD on the floor. You’ll want to choose objects that are smooth, durable, and are comfortable for you to hold or manipulate.