7 Best Dildos for Beginners Actually Tested

Given how affordable and competitively priced these toys are, there’s not much to complain about. And the variety in the 9 sizes should be enough to find a dildo the size and shape you’re looking for. We rated the FunFactory Big Boss G5 as the best overall vibrating dildo, although maybe that’s cheating because this toy is more of a vibrator first and dildo second. Similar to most regular vibes, it has a powerful internal motor with 6 intensity levels and 6 vibration modes. It’s not small (7″ insertable length and 1.8″ diameter), so keep that in mind if you want a thinner vibrating dildo.

Now, dildos come in a huge variety of shapes, sizes, and consistencies, and can be used for partner play, kink, anal play, and more. “Dildos can be made from different types of materials, including silicone, glass, stainless steel, wood, etc,” notes Marla Renee Stewart, MA, a sexologist and sexpert for Lovers. “In addition, they can vary in how they are shaped. They can be made for shorter penetration, longer penetration, or even curved to aim towards the g-spot.” Lifelike-feeling dildos can also be great for virtual sex with long-distance partners.

Its girth also promotes vagina stretching while giving you the thrilling, filled-up, cock-drunk feeling without tipping over to discomfort. While it won’t bulge to fit your curves and angles, it delivers straight-up thrusting and chases the cream pie finish flawlessly. Most strap on harnesses are unisex which means that both women and men can wear them.

Marla Renee Stewart, MA is a professional sexologist and intimacy/relationship/sex coach. Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference and a board member of both PARK Reproductive Justice NOW! And the Diverse Sexualities and Research Education Institute, Stewart is passionate about bringing together diverse voices in order to spread sexual education and liberation. This toy has a near-perfect online rating, with one promising review stating, “If you’re new to glass this one is a great one to start with.” Stewart recommends double-sided dildos like this one in particular, suggesting inflatable didlo, “You and your partner can experiment with different positions where both of you are being penetrated.”

Keep in mind that dildos for men not only serve to achieve orgasm better. They also help us better understand our own body and that of our partner. If this is your first dildo, choose a small, simple model that will allow you to get used to this sex toy. Do you prefer a dildo with a phallic appearance and a realistic texture?

Notably, Loki Wave has the legendary come-hither motion on the prostate stimulator, which taps the P-spot in a back-and-forth movement to enhance the sensations. The come-hither motion and vibrations on the perineum stimulator combine for a unique wave-like motion. This unique technology allows you to tug at the skin like on an actual penis. “I was amazed that the outer layer gently moved when I stroked it, making it feel just like human skin. Our biggest qualm is the 4″ girth , making it more suitable for beginners. Also, using the bullet vibrator means giving up the suction because it pops out at the bottom.

A new kind of dildos known as skin-safe rubber has started gaining popularity, it offers the same amount of pleasure but differs since skin-safe dildos do not have phthalates. If dildos made of this material suits you then it’s the best precaution to always ensure you put it on in a condom first. Also, ensure that you always store jelly-rubber-made sex toys on separate places to prevent them from melting. Most beginners, typically start with softer materials like silicone for their first dildo.

You can have short, thick dildos, and very long skinny dildos. Although in the case of borosilicate glass, be careful of sudden temperature shock as that can cause the toy to break and crack. Gradual temperature changes are your friend with glass toys. Warm, soapy water is usually more than enough to disinfect and clean a dildo. If your dildo has lots of texture or grooves, then it helps to have a dedicated ‘dildo toothbrush’ to get in all the nooks and crannies on the surface of the toy.

These harder options provide a totally different sensation inside you – with no ‘give’ or flexibility. Rather than aiming for any sensation from the length of a butt-plug style dildo, these toys are designed to sit just inside your anus, giving a sense of fullness from their girth. A butt plug will usually taper quickly to create a slim section that your anus closes around – before flaring again to create a final flared base design for safety. Men’s dildos tend to have a flared base that is significantly wider than the shaft of the sex toy.

She can enjoy a sexual fantasy in her mind and imagine it is is a hunky lover who has the perfect moves! It’s the perfect way to “warm up” the vagina before intercourse. Using a sex toy can spice up your sex life, and communication is essential if you want to incorporate dildos and other sex toys into your relationship.